I am in celebratory mood, so tonight’s guest has picked a great night to join me for Friday Night Drinks! Welcome to the blog author…. Tanya Bullock.
Tanya, I am in party mood, so thank you for joining me for drinks this evening. First things first, what are you drinking?
It’s got to be a large glass of red. Rioja’s my favourite, but I’d settle for a glass of Cabernet Sauvignon or Malbec. Mind you, once we get to the club (see below) I’d probably need a couple of cheeky shots before braving the dancefloor!
If we weren’t here in my virtual bar tonight, but were meeting in real life, where would you be taking me for a night out?
Hmm, well we’ve only just met, so it would be nice to get to know you first. A quiet country pub with a roaring open fire where we could have a good old natter in the warm. After that, I’d whisk you off to a nightclub for a boogie. I was quite the ‘clubber’ in my youth, but I haven’t been on a dance floor since my 40th birthday in 2016, so a night of dancing is long overdue.
Sounds great, although I’m even older than you so we might have to take it slowly to begin with! If you could invite two famous people, one male and one female, alive or dead, along on our night out, who would we be drinking with?
Unhesitatingly Alan Rickman. I would love to spend an evening listening to that gorgeous, velvety voice. My favourite film of all time is Truly Madly Deeply – the emotion he was able to convey with just one soulful look! I was so sad when he died. The female would have to be Edith Piaf. Again, a voice that stirs my very soul. The only issue I’d foresee is my choice of venue – it would be an utter waste to take Alan and Edith to a nightclub and have them shouting over the music all night. We wouldn’t be able to hear their voices, which would kind of defeat the object of inviting them. So…would you mind if we spent the whole evening in the pub instead?
I adored Alan Rickman, I would spend an evening in a broom closet with him! Truly, Madly Deeply is an amazing film, but a real tear-jerker! So, now we’re settled, tell me what you are up to at the moment. How and why did you start it and where do you want it to go?
At the moment, I’m balancing my writing career with being a specialist SEN teacher/college manager and mum to my two lovely kids. In terms of writing, I started my fourth novel earlier this year. I’m about eighty pages in but have paused to mull over a few important decisions about characters and plot. As with my other novels, this book will explore the themes of social isolation and mental health. I’m passionate about social issues and the lives and rights of people who are marginalised and excluded from our society, which has been the one mainstay of both my teaching and writing careers. My first book, Desperately Seeking Normal, is about a young woman with learning difficulties and her quest for happiness, my second novel, Homecoming, is the story of a couple finding love within the care system and my third novel The Lonely Hearts Crime Club, brings together a disparate group of crimefighters, living in social housing. So, in terms of where this next book is going, I aim to stay true to myself as a writer: this time, I want to explore the themes of domestic abuse and old age but, as with my other books, there will be an uplifting thread and an air of mystery woven throughout the narrative.
What has been your proudest moment since you started writing and what has been your biggest challenge?
My proudest moment was most definitely the day that my wonderful publisher, Stephanie Zia at Blackbird Digital Books, said ‘yes’! My first book, That Special Someone (which was revised and retitled Desperately Seeking Normal earlier this year) was so important to me because I’d poured into it all my feelings about motherhood and about teaching young people with special educational needs. It broke my heart every time it was rejected, so getting that magical email from Stephanie was like winning the lottery! My biggest challenge has been writing, working full time and raising my children. When my kids were babies, I would run to my computer every time I put them down for a nap. They’re older now, but I still have to prioritise my family and job over my writing.
I can definitely relate to that juggling act. What is the one big thing you’d like to achieve in your chosen arena? Be as ambitious as you like, it’s just us talking after all!
If I’m being ambitious, I’d have to aim for The Booker Prize for Fiction. As a filmmaker, I won a Royal Television Society Award for a disability awareness documentary, which was a very proud moment. As a writer, I’ve been nominated for The Guardian Not the Booker Prize, the People’s Book Prize and the Beryl Bainbridge First Novel Award, but I’ve not won anything…yet.
What have you planned that you are really excited about?
I get excited about writing, so carrying on with my fourth novel is just about as thrilling as it gets for me at the moment. If it wasn’t for lockdown, I’d be planning a lovely family summer holiday and a Christmas show for my students, but neither of those are possible right now.
I love to travel, and I’m currently drawing up a bucket list of things I’d like to do in the future. Where is your favourite place that you’ve been and what do you have at the top of your bucket list?
I’ve been very lucky in that I’ve travelled extensively and lived abroad too. I had a bucket list of places to visit all through my childhood and so, as soon as I finished university, I spent a few years travelling. I would go home to earn money and then I’d be off again: Australia, Asia, America, Europe, travelling, working, holidaying. It was a wonderful time and I’m so glad I was lucky enough to scratch that itch before settling down and becoming a ‘grown-up.’ I don’t have a bucket list now because I can honestly say I’ve done everything I’ve ever wanted to do: travel, make and maintain great friendships, write and publish books, direct films, get married, have kids. I’m so very lucky. I do have a list for my children because I want them to have all the experiences that I was fortunate enough to have. My husband and I had planned to take them to Venice last summer, but we were forced to cancel due to the pandemic. So, Venice is on my list for them, although they would rather to go to Disneyland. I’ll let you know who wins!
Going back to your question, I don’t have a favourite place from my travelling days, but I do have favourite iconic locations, where the reality of a place or monument surpassed my most vivid dreams and expectations. In no particular order: the Taj Mahal, scuba-diving the Great Barrier Reef, Ayers Rock/Uluru, the Statue of Liberty, the Hollywood sign, watching the sunrise over Angkor Wat in Cambodia. My favourite country is France, as I feel both at home and on holiday when I’m there. Wow, long answer, sorry! You and I would definitely bond over travel with Alan and Edith in that little country pub.
You’ve been to so many of the places on my list, I wish we were having that drink and chat IRL! i have an almost identical photo of myself at the Statue of Liberty! Tell me one interesting/surprising/secret fact about yourself.
I was once mistaken for a member of The Spice Girls on a train going to Cannes. I was in my twenties and living in France at the time. Four other English girls and I went on a day trip to the Cannes Film Festival and were mobbed by a group of teenage French boys on the train. We indulged them by posing for photos and signing autographs, each picking the Spice Girl we thought we most resembled. I picked Sporty!
That’s hilarious! Books are my big passion and central to my blog and I’m always looking for recommendations. What one book would you give me and recommend as a ‘must-read’?
Love Story by Erich Segal. As a child, I spent my summers at my grandparents’ place in France. They were big readers and their house was full of bookshelves overflowing with Flaubert, Balzac and Stendhal. As a child, I loved reading, but, despite my mum’s best efforts, not in French. One summer, I’d finished all the books I’d brought with me and in desperation, started scouring their bookshelves for an English book. I found Mr Segal’s slim tome and devoured it in one sitting. I then spent the afternoon locked in my bedroom in tears, unable to cope with the beauty and sadness of what I’d just read. So, as the first and last book which has ever made me cry, I recommend Love Story as my one ‘must-read’.
He is Oliver Barrett IV, a rich jock from a stuffy WASP family on his way to a Harvard degree and a career in law.
She is Jenny Cavilleri, a wisecracking working-class beauty studying music at Radcliffe.
Opposites in nearly every way. But they fell in love.
This is their story.
I have never come across this book, I’ll add it to the list. So, we’ve been drinking all evening. What is your failsafe plan to avoid a hangover and your go-to cure if you do end up with one?
Ha ha! Well, my hangovers are actually legendary. My friend once plied me with shots on the dancefloor, assuring me that the cooked breakfast she was planning the next morning would see off any hangover. She was soooo very wrong and I was still being sick the following evening. My failsafe plan is…don’t get drunk (I’ve managed to stick to this since becoming a mum eleven years ago) and, as for a cure, I know of no remedy on earth capable of alleviating my monstrous hangovers!
After our fabulous night out, what would be your ideal way to spend the rest of a perfect weekend?
Reading of course! How about a bit of writing thrown in for good measure? And a roast dinner. Oh, and a massage. There. Perfect.
That sounds absolutely perfect. Tanya, this has been a huge pleasure for me, thank you so much for coming on the blog and chatting to me.
In the summer of this year, Tanya’s first novel, That Special Someone, was revised and retitled as Desperately Seeking Normal, with a new cover by her artist husband, Darren Lewis. You can buy a copy here.
Life as the single mum of a child with learning difficulties is tough… but it gets so much harder when puberty hits. To single mum Izzie’s alarm all her daughter Jaya, 18, wants from life is to get married and have babies. This creates a moral dilemma for Izzie: how can she continue to protect her daughter whilst at the same time letting her go?
In the small Midlands town where they live, there is little prospect of meaningful employment or continuing education for Jaya. So, Izzie wonders, would finding a ‘suitable husband’ via an arranged marriage for half-Indian Jaya be so crazy?
But when Jaya falls head over heels for a teaching assistant in her college’s Special Educational Needs department, a disastrous sequence of events is set in motion. Life for Jaya and Izzie is turned around in ways that nobody could ever have foreseen.
Tanya Bullock is a college lecturer, writer and award-winning filmmaker. She lives in the UK with her husband and two children. She has a passion for foreign culture and languages (inherited from her French mother) and, in her youth, travelled extensively throughout Australia, America, Asia and Europe. As a filmmaker, she gained local recognition, including funding and regional television broadcast, through ITV’s First Cut scheme, two nominations for a Royal Television Society Midlands Award, and, in 2010, a Royal Television Society Award in the category of best promotional film. On maternity leave in 2011 and in need of a creative outlet, Tanya began to write That Special Someone, the story of a young woman with learning difficulties and her quest to find love. It was a finalist for The People’s Book Prize and The Beryl Bainbridge First Time Author Award 2016. In 2020, it was republished and retitled Desperately Seeking Normal. Her second novel, Homecoming, a love story with an unexpected twist, was published in 2016. The Lonely Hearts Crime Club is Tanya’s third novel. A cozy mystery with a shocking finale, it was published in the spring of 2019 and longlisted for the Guardian’s Not The Booker Prize in the same year. All Tanya’s novels are published by Blackbird Digital Books.